Comments for Anger Management http://angercontrol.wordpress.com Make Your Anger Work for You Instead of Against You! Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:06:13 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on How to Know if You Have an Anger Problem by Nicola http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-219 Nicola Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:06:13 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-219 ok thanks for helping. do i have to go to someone to get checked out?? ok thanks for helping. do i have to go to someone to get checked out??

]]> Comment on How to Know if You Have an Anger Problem by wgdefoore http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-218 wgdefoore Tue, 22 Sep 2009 12:23:39 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-218 Hi Nicola I suggest you sit down with your mom and have a long talk, and tell her everything about your anger. Maybe even show her what you've written on this blog. I don't know that much about you, just what you've written. And from what you've written, I'd say you need some help. You need to communicate with your mom about this. It will be very hard for you to get help without her support. You can, however, read everything on <a href="http://www.angermanagementresource.com/teenage-anger-management.html" rel="nofollow">this page</a> and practice <a href="http://www.angermanagementresource.com/anger-management-techniques.html" rel="nofollow">these anger management techniques</a>. Most important, don't give up on yourself! Dr. DeFoore Hi Nicola

I suggest you sit down with your mom and have a long talk, and tell her everything about your anger. Maybe even show her what you’ve written on this blog. I don’t know that much about you, just what you’ve written. And from what you’ve written, I’d say you need some help. You need to communicate with your mom about this. It will be very hard for you to get help without her support.

You can, however, read everything on this page and practice these anger management techniques.

Most important, don’t give up on yourself!

Dr. DeFoore

]]> Comment on How to Know if You Have an Anger Problem by Nicola http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-217 Nicola Mon, 21 Sep 2009 23:12:34 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-217 where should i go to get help?? i dont think my mum will believe that i have it. do i definitely have it?? thanks for your help where should i go to get help?? i dont think my mum will believe that i have it. do i definitely have it?? thanks for your help

]]> Comment on How to Know if You Have an Anger Problem by wgdefoore http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-216 wgdefoore Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:55:31 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-216 Hi Nicola Thanks for asking for help here. I will give you more detailed response, if you will <a href="http://www.angermanagementresource.com/self-help-anger-management.html#INV" rel="nofollow">go to this page</a> and submit your question. Meanwhile, if you don't want to do that, try reading <a href="http://www.angermanagementresource.com/is-this-anger.html" rel="nofollow">this story</a> and my response, and see if that helps. From what you have said above, there is no question--you definitely have an anger problem, and you need to get some help. Go to my main site http://www.angermanagementresource.com and you'll find lots of great help there, or see what is available in your area. You are a good person inside, Nicola, and that's why you don't want to hurt people and feel guilty when you do. That good person inside is who you really are, and that is where your healing will come from. Believe in yourself. My very best to you, Dr. DeFoore Hi Nicola

Thanks for asking for help here. I will give you more detailed response, if you will go to this page and submit your question.

Meanwhile, if you don’t want to do that, try reading this story and my response, and see if that helps.

From what you have said above, there is no question–you definitely have an anger problem, and you need to get some help. Go to my main site http://www.angermanagementresource.com and you’ll find lots of great help there, or see what is available in your area.

You are a good person inside, Nicola, and that’s why you don’t want to hurt people and feel guilty when you do. That good person inside is who you really are, and that is where your healing will come from.

Believe in yourself.

My very best to you,

Dr. DeFoore

]]> Comment on How to Know if You Have an Anger Problem by Nicola http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-215 Nicola Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:44:29 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-215 Im 16.......i think i might have an anger problem. im really angry to the people closest to me. one day me and my best friend that i know for 7 years, were eating sweets and i got annoyed and threw a sweet at her. she threw it back at me and then i got up and hit her in the head. she hit me back in the head and then i went physcho at her. i dont even remember it really, but i remember pushing her to the ground and kicking her really hard in the stomach. she then went off crying. after it my heart was racing and my hands were shaking and i felt so guilty for doing it. she forgived me later and said that there's something really wrong with me. the other day aswell, my brother was calling a name i hate the most. and i ran up to my room and slammed my door and picked up my chair and threw it at the wall. my room ended up in a big mess. i was shouting at the top of my lungs aswell. i always have a really bad headache and feel dizzy sometimes aswell. i tought i could me anemic but the doctor said its definitly not. when i get angry i clench my fists or grind my teeth or kick/punch an object. its mostly with people i know the most and love the most that i take it out on. i dont really want to go to the doctor/concillor to see if i have it because i dont want to make an idiot out of myself if i dont.....DO I NEED HELP??? PLEASE WRITE BACK...THANKS Im 16…….i think i might have an anger problem. im really angry to the people closest to me. one day me and my best friend that i know for 7 years, were eating sweets and i got annoyed and threw a sweet at her. she threw it back at me and then i got up and hit her in the head. she hit me back in the head and then i went physcho at her. i dont even remember it really, but i remember pushing her to the ground and kicking her really hard in the stomach. she then went off crying. after it my heart was racing and my hands were shaking and i felt so guilty for doing it. she forgived me later and said that there’s something really wrong with me. the other day aswell, my brother was calling a name i hate the most. and i ran up to my room and slammed my door and picked up my chair and threw it at the wall. my room ended up in a big mess. i was shouting at the top of my lungs aswell. i always have a really bad headache and feel dizzy sometimes aswell. i tought i could me anemic but the doctor said its definitly not. when i get angry i clench my fists or grind my teeth or kick/punch an object. its mostly with people i know the most and love the most that i take it out on. i dont really want to go to the doctor/concillor to see if i have it because i dont want to make an idiot out of myself if i dont…..DO I NEED HELP??? PLEASE WRITE BACK…THANKS

]]> Comment on How to Know if You Have an Anger Problem by Dr. DeFoore http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-214 Dr. DeFoore Wed, 16 Sep 2009 19:20:39 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-214 Hi Luke Thanks for asking for help here. I will give you a very detailed response, but you will need to <a href="http://www.angermanagementresource.com/self-help-anger-management.html#INV" rel="nofollow">go to this page</a> and submit your question. Meanwhile, if you don't want to do that, try reading <a href="http://www.angermanagementresource.com/is-this-anger.html" rel="nofollow">this story</a> and my response, and see if that helps. You're a good person, Luke, or you wouldn't be asking for help here. Go to my main site http://www.angermanagementresource.com and you'll find lots of great help there. Dr. DeFoore Hi Luke

Thanks for asking for help here. I will give you a very detailed response, but you will need to go to this page and submit your question.

Meanwhile, if you don’t want to do that, try reading this story and my response, and see if that helps.

You’re a good person, Luke, or you wouldn’t be asking for help here. Go to my main site http://www.angermanagementresource.com and you’ll find lots of great help there.

Dr. DeFoore

]]> Comment on How to Know if You Have an Anger Problem by Luke http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-213 Luke Wed, 16 Sep 2009 04:02:19 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2006/09/05/how-to-know-if-you-have-an-anger-problem/#comment-213 When i get in fights with my girlfriend i usually am calm and try to talk things through but sometimes i get angry and will hit things (such as a wall) or throw things. Its like i lose control of myself.....i dont want to cause any harm or become that angry but it just happens without my control. It sometimes scares my girlfriend and i want to know how control this. I dont want it to cause anyone to be harmed unintentionally. is there a way to help control this issue? When i get in fights with my girlfriend i usually am calm and try to talk things through but sometimes i get angry and will hit things (such as a wall) or throw things. Its like i lose control of myself…..i dont want to cause any harm or become that angry but it just happens without my control. It sometimes scares my girlfriend and i want to know how control this. I dont want it to cause anyone to be harmed unintentionally. is there a way to help control this issue?

]]> Comment on Your Anger and Your Money by Samantha http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2008/12/20/your-anger-and-your-money/#comment-212 Samantha Fri, 11 Sep 2009 12:12:58 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2008/12/20/your-anger-and-your-money/#comment-212 Rightly put in....Knowing what one wants is the first and perhaps the most important step towards the development of good spending habit.But we must become familiar with the habits and learn to use them in our lifestyle.http://www.habitchanger.com/moneyandyou/ Rightly put in….Knowing what one wants is the first and perhaps the most important step towards the development of good spending habit.But we must become familiar with the habits and learn to use them in our lifestyle.http://www.habitchanger.com/moneyandyou/

]]> Comment on Your Anger and Your Money by Johny http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2008/12/20/your-anger-and-your-money/#comment-211 Johny Fri, 11 Sep 2009 07:33:38 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2008/12/20/your-anger-and-your-money/#comment-211 Good Post! It covers both problem as well as treatment anger & money - Stress Management. Good Post! It covers both problem as well as treatment anger & money – Stress Management.

]]> Comment on Get Help With Forgiveness by Anger Control http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/2009/06/10/get-help-with-forgiveness/#comment-210 Anger Control Mon, 27 Jul 2009 16:51:22 +0000 http://angercontrol.wordpress.com/?p=123#comment-210 These are very important and helpful tips. I for one always want to be happy, so these tips will come in handy. Thanks a bunch for sharing them. These are very important and helpful tips. I for one always want to be happy,
so these tips will come in handy. Thanks a bunch for sharing them.

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